Kathy and Rai are back with a hilarious, revealing, and sometimes too-real conversation. From a Cane’s cashier possibly slipping her number to Rai’s husband (and her daughter calling it out 👀), to unpacking what flirting really means in relationships, the hosts get candid about trust, jealousy, and “believe women”—even when they’re only seven years old.
The conversation doesn’t stop there: Kathy and Rai dive into awkward DMs, creepy versus flattering attention, the “fight, flight, or fawn” survival response, and how society mislabels women’s coping strategies. Later, they shift gears into Costco chaos, minimalist living, travel plans to Asia, and the struggles (and joys) of staying grounded while navigating abundance.
Funny, raw, and insightful, this episode mixes personal stories, cultural observations, and plenty of laughs.
What You’ll Hear in This Episode:
The “Cane’s incident” and why Rai’s daughter is ride-or-die.
Is harmless flirting really harmless—or is it crossing the line?
When attention feels flattering vs. when it feels gross.
“Fight, flight, or fawn”—why women often have to smile through discomfort.
Costco strategies, overspending confessions, and minimalism hacks.
Travel dreams: Japan, Vietnam, Laos, and cruising with Disney.
Language, identity, and the pressures of heritage.
Why Listen:
If you’ve ever laughed about relationship drama, debated what counts as flirting, or just wondered how to survive a Costco trip without dropping $500—you’ll feel seen in this episode.
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